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How Healthy is Your Marriage

WebYes No. 16. My spouse is a good steward of our finances. Yes No. If you answered “yes” to most of these questions, your marriage is relatively healthy, even if you’re having some conflict or difficulties. One or two …

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I'm Scared To Stay Well Or Leave Well

WebWhen a husband (or wife) repeatedly chooses to treat his spouse with contempt, abuse, indifference, harshness, cruelty, and deceit, he or she cannot demand the benefits of a good marriage. To do …

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My Husband Is Chronically Complaining And Often In A Bad Mood

WebAnswer: It is extremely difficult to live with a negative person. Your husband may be experiencing depression and you may want to invite him to take a depression …

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What Does a Healthy Relationship Look Like

WebFor any relationship to be healthy there must be three things present. They are to a relationship what oxygen, blood, and skin are to the body: essential. When you begin to …

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My Husband Has The Disease Of Alcoholism. Should I Accept That

WebFrom your question, it sounds as if your husband uses the disease model of alcoholism for an excuse to act out, to be irresponsible for his health, his work, and his …

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More Clarity on Boundaries and Consequences

WebPersonal boundaries are necessary so that we take responsibility for ourselves and exercise good stewardship over our body, our time, our energy, our …

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How do I Stay Well in a Toxic Marriage

WebA – No longer Argue. D – No longer Defend yourself. E – No longer Explain yourself. At first glance, that strategy may not make sense. In a normal relationship, when you have a …

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Topic: My wife is overweight and I'm turned off!

WebFocus on the beautiful way she dresses, her hair, her eyes or her smile. Look beyond her shape and into to her heart. God says that inner beauty is far more important …

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What If My Spouse Is Mentally Ill

WebMental illness as well as a chronic physical illness can take a huge toll on the marriage relationship and often puts one spouse in a care giving and/or parental role. It’s …

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For Better or Worse

WebChoice #3: Leave the marriage bitter and angry because he won’t change or do his own work and feel guilty and spiritually shamed. Choice #4: Accept the truth. The dream of …

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More About Boundaries and Consequences

WebDepending on the boundary you needed to set and the consequence for refusing to respect it, it will mean different things. For some individuals it means no …

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My Husband is a Chronic Liar. What Can I Do

WebAnswer: As I say in my book, The Emotionally Destructive Relationship, it’s impossible to have a healthy relationship with someone who repeatedly lies to you. So, …

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My Husband Looks At Other Women And I’m Told I’m Crazy

WebAll women find it uncomfortable and disrespectful to see their husband admiring or staring at a beautiful woman, especially after she has told him that it bothers …

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I Need Specific Steps On Separation

WebYou’ve done your part. The mistake that keeps you paralyzed is that you want to control his response. You say, “I want to ask, and get it to happen now.”. You …

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My Husband Is Lazy And Irresponsible. How Do I Honor God

WebIf your husband was sick and dying of cancer or some other major illness he could not control, it might be noble of you to sacrifice for him right now. However, that’s …

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Topic: My adult daughters verbally abuse me. How can I get them …

WebThat shift in your behavior will shock them. They probably will call back, ream you out if you answer, if you don’t, they will do it on the answering machine. Don’t call …

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Do I Have To Have A Relationship With My Mother-In-Law

WebYes, there may be mutual marital problems for you to work on once the destructive behaviors have stopped but until safety is maintained, there can be no close …

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